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Robert Downey Jr.

Robert Downey Jr. is married to Susan Downey; they married on Aug 27, 2005. Past relationships on record include Sarah Jessica Parker and Deborah Falconer.

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Robert Downey Jr. is an American actor known for playing Iron Man and for his Oscar-winning role in Oppenheimer.

This page records the sourced public timeline below. A missing date means the reviewed public sources did not establish a reliable day-level date; it is not inferred.

Who has Robert Downey Jr. dated?

  1. 1984 — 1991

    Sarah Jessica Parker

    past relationship · Confirmed

    Robert Downey Jr. started dating actress Sarah Jessica Parker in 1984 after meeting on the set of Firstborn.

  2. May 29, 1992 — 2004

    Deborah Falconer

    divorced · Confirmed

    Robert Downey Jr. married singer and actress Deborah Falconer on 29 May 1992; their son was born in 1993. The divorce was finalised in 2004.

  3. Aug 27, 2005 — present

    Susan Downey

    married · Confirmed

    Robert Downey Jr. met producer Susan Levin while filming Gothika in 2003 and married her in Amagansett, New York, on 27 August 2005.

Frequently asked questions

Who is Robert Downey Jr.'s wife?

Robert Downey Jr. is married to Susan Downey. They married on Aug 27, 2005.

Who has Robert Downey Jr. dated?

Robert Downey Jr.'s sourced relationship history: Sarah Jessica Parker (past relationship, 1984–1991); Deborah Falconer (divorced, 1992–2004); Susan Downey (married, 2005–present).

How many times has Robert Downey Jr. been married?

Robert Downey Jr. has 2 recorded marriages: Deborah Falconer (1992–2004) and Susan Downey (2005–present).

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